Why so rude..

So I’m doing the old google search of my name, and an article pops up on the daily mail about a recent blog I did explaining we didn’t do the show for fame.

It was a nice change from botched surgery ugly bitches as the headlines.

Apart from the comments section.. keep in mind people have to go out of their way to make comment.

“We’ll status quo maintained, still not famous” one read and the other “good thing they didn’t sign up for fame, let’s face it they’re not”

Thanks captain obvious.. isn’t that what I’ve said?

I know it shouldn’t get to me, but it does.

The only profile i wanted to keep was to help people, I wanted to be the difference in a very self serving world.

While I’m so proud my suffering and what I’ve been through has now made an impact, my blessing is to help others.

But the hate continues, from narrow minded people that instead of skipping over someone your not keen on, they make a point to be rude.

My beautiful cousin has been attacked at work defending us, literally had a news paper thrown at her by nasty women.

Months on, her angst at work still stands, it’s a cooking show for goodness sake!

In a few months a new batch of hopefuls will take to our screens and we will be long forgotten.

I don’t care if I’m remembered for my kickass cheesecake… I care they you remember me for this, who I am! The real me.

If you don’t like this one… the person I get to show you with no editing or creative publicity – it’s your call and i can’t win them all.

Don’t judge others by what you think you know as the truth.

No I’m not famous.. I don’t care to be! While celebs have my full admiration for the constant negativity of social, you literally have to shit golden nuggets to win praise in the industry – it’s not for me.

This blog isn’t some last minute attempt to hold on to some kind of public life..

I simply enjoy the relationships I’ve created with our followers from the show, my way of keeping in touch and still being able to interact.. posting selfies is cool – I’m a big fan, but this is a bit more of me.

I’ve had so many amazing people message me about their struggles.

Bullying is a term used a lot, often warranted – young girls constantly being attacked at school.

Anxiety stems from being the victim of bullying.

You don’t just have to be a child in school to fall victim to it, my cousin is proof adults are subjected to this in their workplaces also.

Everyone thinks because they have an opinion it’s fine to voice it, maybe hold your tongue till you’ve considered it’s impact.

My point is think before you be a dick.. give the poor fuckers a chance on reality tv shows, be smart enough to know it’s not always what it seems!

Most of all be kind to each other! It’s really not that hard.

To the meanies who I will never win over and to all aspiring and graduated trolls..

Suck a fat one… people are waking up to you and pretty soon you’ll have no power.

Read a book, masturbate or go for a walk, volunteer.. get off social and start living!!

My 2 cents on assholes!

Love you all – Jess xx

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